However, I think there's a little more to it than just that for me. It's not just about switching. The same concept can be applied more broadly as far as my preferences in spanking. As a secret spanko you don't always get to be picky in finding ladies that want to meet to play in real life. But if I had my 'druthers... I'm not as into submissive women as you might expect. Having said that though, the concept of the stronger the person, the greater their gift of submission really appeals to me.
If I had my preference, I'd prefer spanking strong women. And by "strong woman" I don't mean a body builder.
|not so much|
Her "strength" can come in a variety of ways. I'm just using "strong" because not sure how to say it better. I've compared spanking to fishing before, and its better to catch a big fish but sometimes more fun to catch one with a lot of fight in it. Okay, that probably doesn't help explain what I'm trying to say either. (And no offense to bigger women meant!) Maybe some examples would help.
Here's what I mean by that... Maybe their strength comes from their position or reputation. One of the last secret spankos I met, in our phone conversations prior to setting up our date, said at one point, "hang on, let me shut the office door." She was a successful professional, and assertive in her real life, and the fact that someone like that wanted a spanking from me gave me an extra tingle thinking about it. Christina Hendricks in Mad Men sort of personifies that to me. She's the boss of the office staff. Not on the level of the partners (well, until the end of this season!) but she's certainly stronger than any receptionist or phone operator, and well, in my fantasy, I'd far prefer to give her a spanking (and not just because of her boobs) than give a spanking to one of the ladies she supervises, even if the younger more naive ladies she supervises are plenty hot too. Make sense now?
Maybe their strength comes from the fact that they're older than me. No secret that I think spanking an older woman is really appealing. There's something a little more out of the ordinary and special about a younger guy spanking an older woman- again, the gift of submission is just a little bit greater. I've shared some hot emails with Emen (my guest host - she'll be running the blog next week by the way) and the fact that she's older than I am and thinks that's sexy adds to it.
Maybe she's not only older than I am, not only a great writer, not only has a rapier wit that would keep a top on his toes, but also a highly respected member of the community with "gravitas" - Gee, wonder who I'm thinking about? Her credentials adds a little zest to the thought of me spanking her.
Maybe it's that she has a reputation as one who relishes injuring the hands of her spankers with her famously iron-like butt. It wouldn't have meant as much to me for her to open up if she didn't have that hard tough-girl exterior. Gee, wonder who I'm thinking about?
In the same vein, I really like tall women. Maybe it's that it's a bigger deal for them to bend over. Having met Amelia Jane Rutherford, I can see why she might be intimidating to some men. She's as tall as I am, and beautiful. Not too many ladies am I around that make me think of the bald spot on top of my head, but if she were in heels, she'd probably see it. But I really like to see tall ladies bent over. And it's been a few paragraphs without pictures, so here goes.
|Sarah of SpankingSarah is tall too. notice how her butt is almost at his chest level when she's bent over?|
|you can see from this pic that's she's taller than he is, but bending over for an accomplished spanker.|
|Another of SpankingSarah showing the height difference that I think makes it just a little bit hotter.|
|Like I said, maybe I like it because tall ladies just have further to bend over.|
As I mentioned before, I'll be gone for a week or so starting next week, but Emen has graciously agreed for me to post some of her wonderful writing again. I hope y'all enjoy it as much as I have. (I've gotten a sneak peak!) Adios, for now.