There are eighty-bajillion spanking blogs out there, and 99% are written by someone who is "out" as a spanko... this one is about someone who is not out but is a spanko in secret. For those who love their vanilla spouse/partner/significant other but they don't share your attraction to spanking... you're not alone.
This is nothing new. I mean, pink Pepto Bismol soothes an upset stomach, right? Decades ago, Hayden Fry, the legendary coach at Iowa infamously painted the visiting locker rooms at the stadium pink. Apparently, it was something he learned as a psychology major in undergrad. To this day, (well, as of 2010) it still stands as an amusing and maybe effective tool used against opponents.
Okay so most of the inspiration for this post is from another Slate article. See, it turns out that while the color pink is soothing, the color red has a much different effect. Red is not just the color of angry men, it's the color of desire. (and I don't know this just because I finally watched that Les Mis musical movie last weekend!) No, scientificstudiesback it up. Men are sexually attracted to the color red. Read the one on hitchhikers- women were less likely to pick up read T-Shirt wearing women, but men were more likely to do so. So ladies... Let's relate this back to spanking: If you're going to post a pic on fetlife or a spanking personal site hoping to attract a man, pose a sexy pic in red:
And just when the spanking's get a bit painful and hard to take- hold on tight and encourage just a bit more. Or discourage it in a teasing way designed to elicit a bit more- "Please sir! I don't know if I can take anymore... It hurts!" Wiggle and squirm on his lap and bear down and just take a little bit more until your bottom turns from pink to red. I guess if there's anything more attractive to a man than a gorgeous female bottom, it has to be a red one!