|My little worm is growing thinking about you looking at it.|
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
Still here... sort of.
Sorry folks. Had a bit of a medical issue, hence the lack of posts recently. Everything came out okay (so to speak) but woke up to find myself shaved down there, with bandages. Now that those hairs are growing back underneath said bandages, it's kinda itchy.
Meanwhile, there was once a discussion thread on fetlife where I opined that although for some it was possible for spanking to not be sexual, for most there was/is an element of sexuality to the appeal of spanking. Someone resurrected the thread, and the next thing I knew I was being called out for that statement. Apparently to some, spanking is just like looking at worms; or bowling, or eating pasta, riding a unicycle; i.e., inherently non-sexual. Seriously. That's what she said. I beg to differ:
Except that... With a spanking, your pants and panties are down as you bend over- whether you're bowling, or uni-cycling or eating pasta, whatever. It's inherently going to be at least a little sexy to any red-blooded male. (Not sure about a hypothetical earthworm wiggling, but bet any shrink with half a brain could recognize some symbolism there.) Regardless, I feel it's safe to say that I've spoken/corresponded with a great number of spankos, and I stand by my assertion that to most (not all, but far more than 50%) spanking has a sexual element to its appeal.
at 11:26 PM