Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Still here... sort of.

Sorry folks.  Had a bit of a medical issue, hence the lack of posts recently. Everything came out okay (so to speak) but woke up to find myself shaved down there, with bandages.  Now that those hairs are growing back underneath said bandages, it's kinda itchy.  

Meanwhile, there was once a discussion thread on fetlife where I opined that although for some it was possible for spanking to not be sexual, for most there was/is an element of sexuality to the appeal of spanking.  Someone resurrected the thread, and the next thing I knew I was being called out for that statement.  Apparently to some, spanking is just like looking at worms; or bowling, or eating pasta, riding a unicycle; i.e., inherently non-sexual.  Seriously.  That's what she said.  I beg to differ:
My little worm is growing thinking about you looking at it.

Except that... With a spanking, your pants and panties are down as you bend over- whether you're bowling, or uni-cycling  or eating pasta, whatever.  It's inherently going to be at least a little sexy to any red-blooded male. (Not sure about a hypothetical earthworm wiggling, but bet any shrink with half a brain could recognize some symbolism there.)  Regardless, I feel it's safe to say that I've spoken/corresponded with a great number of spankos, and I stand by my assertion that to most (not all, but far more than 50%) spanking has a sexual element to its appeal.

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  1. Maybe to some spankers it's pure dominance, control and sadism. Maybe to some spankees it's pure masochism and humiliation. I'll entertain that possibility.

    But I'm kinda grateful neither is me. My ass is wired as a sex organ, and if someone's going to see and feel it at close range, let alone smack it, I'd rather that be sexy for them. Because it sure will be for me.

    Glad to hear you're OK! I enjoy the blog...and my pet semi-secret spanko still says "Don't clench!" from time to time. ;-)

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    1. That's awesome, and glad you like the blog- made my day to have an anonymous comment that wasn't spam! Ha! Thanks.

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  2. Hope all the medical stuff is going well and you're okay!

    I feel like this topic could be debated for .. foreverrr. For me, spanking can be discipline, and something I want to avoid, and it can also be sexual. Most people would tell me i'm crazy or that i'm lying, or that i'm just plain wrong and it has to be one or the other .. but nope, it can be a really good deterrent, or it can be something I crave.

    It's a crazy, confusing, thing for sure, lol.

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    1. I'll be fine. but thanks. And yeah, it can be debated, and I get what you're saying. thanks for the comment!

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  3. Glad you are feeling okay..... yes spanking is discipline but also sexual, at least in my relationship. I can't see how a grown woman bare ass over a male knee would not sexually turn that male on or any male watching for that matter even if spanking isn't there thing!

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    1. Even if spanking is there/their thing, a naked woman's bottom elicits certain reactions from me! good to hear from you, and thanks for the well wishes!

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  4. Definitely on the side of sexy for me. BTW hope you're feeling better.

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    1. Thanks, and glad such great minds think alike! I'll live.

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  5. Good to hear you are recovering well, SS. Regarding whether it's sexual, I'll both defer to and concur with the late scene visionary and founder of Nu-West/Leda, who, speaking as his switchable alter ego Leon Dalman, said, and I paraphrase:

    "When I am leglocked face down over a woman's lap with my bare ass jutting skyward as she blisters the unprotected skin of my naked seat repeatedly and relentlessly with the flat back of a large oval shaped hardwood hairbrush, I consider that to be a sex act in its truest sense, and that I am, in fact, participating in an act of lovemaking."

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    1. thank you anonymous! so sorry I have had so much spam lately that comments on old posts have to be moderated, and I sometimes miss them for awhile! Wow- and what a quote! where's you hear that?

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