But... what if the top just wants to have a little bit of fun with the scene? It's certainly not a dereliction of duties as a top, and almost the antithesis of a service top... having fun whilst giving a spanking, and maybe rubbing it in a little. I hereby christen this practice with the name : Bratting from the Top.
|I love seeing a smiling spanker enjoying themself.|
Let me help to refine the definition by giving examples...
--a post-spanking comforting hug, interrupted by a well placed pinch on a spot of her bottom that I know is sore, accompanied by a wink and maybe even a kiss.
--asking her to fetch an implement knowing full well that it's her least favorite. "I think it's time for the ___ don't you?" and thanking her for retrieving it.
Here's another example from of the stories I wrote, based on an actual scene. Ostensibly I was teaching a lesson about compliance, but really, I just wanted to see boobies. (duh.)
"Up you go sweetie."
You stand in front of me and notice sweat on my brow again, and I'm smiling. Nervously standing there you awkwardly cover your little neatly trimmed thatch of pubic hair with your hand.
"Oh no you don't- you remember what I said about covering up with your hand?"You jerk your hand away uncovering yourself to my direct gaze.
"I thought you said you understood that 'When you cover up you get more.'"
"And when you covered up to prevent the spanking you got more what?"
"More swats sir."
"And so when you cover up to prevent embarrassment what do you think you're gonna get?"
"Uhm... more embarrassment sir?"
"That's right. Lets get those jeans all the way off." You awkwardly comply.
"And now the shirt." Your eyes grow wide. "Yes." Slowly you take the shirt over your head.
"And it seems silly to be dressed in just a bra. Lets get that off too. Besides, I'd like to see those girls wobble about during this next part."
"The next part?!" You think as you uncover your other curves. Your nipples are little pebbles standing proudly on top of the generous mounds.
"Hands behind your head sweetie."
You comply. I step forward and caress first your stomach and then slowly up your chest until I'm cupping them and teasing them. Another hand drifts down and confirms how much you like it.
Let's be honest- for a true spanko top, spanking a cute bottom laying across your lap or even bent over is an enjoyable experience. You might as well have fun and uhm... enjoy it. (even at the expense of a little added pain and embarrassment of your spanko bottom!)
I first noticed Dana Kane through her product testing videos, where she was clearly enjoying herself. I'd be remiss in failing to acknowledge her influence on my spanking style. Though it can vary, I think at times she can enjoy some "bratting from the Top" style spanking as well. And an extra tip of the hat to her for a recent post about how so often real life gets in the way of spanking, but when it's something we enjoy and a stress relief, that could be the exact opposite of what we need. With that in mind, I'll try to post more frequently. I'd love to hear others thoughts on my "Bratting from the Top" idea though.