Thursday, January 30, 2014

how to get past puppy-dog eyes when she needs a spanking

Not too long ago I posted something about puppy dog eyes. Not to take away from that worthy charity project, but I thought about that tactic, and how to deal with it, was thought it was worthy of its own post.

"I know you said not to smoke cigarettes, but I just tried one... it was at a party... I'm just curious if it will help me keep the weight off... it's not like I actually went out and bought a pack or something. C'mon..."
"Little Sweetie, your eyes and that pout... I'm not going to pretend that I'm not tempted to let you off because it's so dadgum cute- it's pretty fucking adorable. Come here." 
(big hug)
"But you know what? You know what else is cute and adorable? Your little round bottom turning pink on my lap as I spank it. And as cute and adorable as your little puppy-dog eyes are, they don't turn me on half as much as your cute little butt squirming on my lap. Not only that, but, if I spank it enough, you just might think twice about taking a cigarette at the next party you go to. Come here. You know you need this, don't you?"

"Yes, Sir."

"And you know you secretly kinda want this, don't you?"

"Yes, Sir."

That's about how it ended.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

interviewed by Natasha Knight

Natasha Knight is very successful spanking romance author. I've mentioned her before, not too long ago. This week she posted an interview of me on her blog. Several interesting points, and I might expound upon them in future posts here.  I've thoroughly enjoyed the email correspondence with her recently.  As a "thank-you" for the interview, she sent me a copy of one of her books Aching to Submit. It's about a woman struggling with her kinky desires and how to broach them with her husband.  It seemed like the most relevant of her published storylines to our discussions.
I started reading it, but to be perfectly honest, I thought it might be too romance-y for me. Wrong. It was hot! I kept reading and reading and couldn't put it down until I'd read almost the whole thing and had reached the climax. (Of the book... the climactic scene of the book... what did you think I meant?!)

Anyway, check out the interview, and I highly recommend her stories. Here's a short little sample of her work.

I imagine readers of this blog may not be avid spanking romance readers, but if they're all this good, you should be! I also wanted to publicly thank Natasha for the opportunity to share.

Friday, January 3, 2014

for those secret spankos on their own

I've been recently asked to help write something for kinky folks that are in the middle of Timbuckthree and without partners.  It's a project geared toward many different kinks, spankos just one of many. It's always flattering to be asked to write something, and in this case, it's obvious why I was chosen- I write for those that are into spanking but without an open outlet for that. duh. One thing was made clear, that it was relatively easy for those interested in spanking as a bottom to engage in their fetish, even on their own.  So without breaking confidence in the portion of a book I'm supposed to help write, I thought I'd open it up a bit to my readers.  Here's a portion of what I came up with: 
-Find 4 things in the house that could be used as spanking implements (spoon, ruler, hairbrush, paint stirrer etc) or you could break this up into several activities - find a wooden spoon and spank yourself with it, do the same with a spatula, etc.
-Give yourself 10 swats with each and then rank them in terms of severity.
-Give yourself 100 spanks with each of the household implements

-now set a timer and spank yourself steadily for 3 minutes. Which do you prefer? Which is more severe? (This can be increased progressively 200 swats/6 minutes etc)
-Give yourself a wet bottom spanking. Use either a wet washcloth or spray bottle make sure your bare bottom is wet and spank yourself as above. Stop midway through and re wet your bottom.
-Go to a store (walmart/target/walgreens etc) and purchase something that would be a good spanking implement. Bonus points- give yourself a test swat with it in the store.
-Give yourself a silent spanking. Get a tube of capsaicin cream from a drugstore (found near heating pads and icy hot type ointments.) start with a light coating on your bare bottom (wash your hands after applying) and leave it on for 15 minutes.
-Get a pocket knife and go into your backyard and cut a switch, take off the leaves, and use it on yourself.
-Bonus points, do it again, but this time go out into the back yard bottomless to cut it.
-Make contact with someone else into spanking on the Internet. (Chat, email, etc)
-Take a picture of your bare bottom- harder than you think.
-Send a pic of your bare bottom to someone with whom you've contacted
- Do it again but this time a pic of your pink or red bottom freshly spanked.
-Find spanking stories on the Internet. Read 5 and contact the author of your favorite one.
-Write a spanking story incorporating your fantasies -bonus points for posting it somewhere.
-Experiment spanking a body part other than your bottom (inner thigh, backs of the thighs, perineum, genitals, breasts)

Okay so what am I missing? any suggestions when it comes to self spanking? please let me know in the comments.